My flags / identities hoard


I like to hoard flags. Main terms in short: nonbinary, transgender, childfree, sex-repulsed, antiamorous, apath.
All the -sexual and -romantic terms also apply to any other tertiary attraction not mentioned.
Do not call me any feminine term. Do not give me any compliment.



Pronouns Names Honorifics Terms to avoid
In English:
💜 they them their theirs themself
💜 hīe hīe heom heora hīself
ae aem aer aers aemself
hel hel heli hels helself
ze hir hir hirs hirself
In Italian:
💜 lui / -o
lui / -u
ləi / -ə
any neutral ending except -*
💜 Hiba
💜 Paru
💜 Juliën
Luss
Giuliə
Juul
Vanadio
💜 Myt. (Myrtus)
💜 formal "lei" in Italian
Mx. (Mixter)
Mg. (Magus)
(as a joke) Sir
(as a joke) Mr.
she/her and he/him
Any diminutive of names
Any compliment
Any feminine term
Honorifics: Ms., Ma'am, Madam
Descriptors: enby, lady, boy, girl
Others: cute, amo/ama, darling, bestie, oomf



Flag Flag description Hex codes Name Explanation Type More info
Six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple.
#D60305 #FE7A13 #E9EE08 #00D78B #027FFE #6B0CD1
LGBT+
Generic Colourblind-friendly edit
r/vexillology post
Two equal-width chevrons, one light purple and one dark purple, on a very pale, almost white, background.
#FFF5EC #CF80CB #824B7A
Queer
Generic
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: light blue, pink, white, pink, light blue.
#5BCEFA #F5A9B8 #FFFFFF
Transgender
Gender modality
Four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black.
#FFF433 #FFFFFF #9B59D0 #2D2D2D
Nonbinary
Genders that fall outside of the gender binary and aren't strictly, solely, or completely "man" or "woman".
Gender modality
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: purple, white, green.
#B57EDC #FFFFFF #4A8123
Genderqueer
Umbrella term for non-normative experiences with gender.
Gender modality
Seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, lime green, white, grey, black.
#000000 #BCC4C6 #FFFFFF #B6F583
Agender
Lack of gender identity.
Gender modality
White flag with thin black and grey stripes at the top and bottom, and a black genderless symbol (a circle with an X inside and a line under) in the middle.
#3C3C3C #B1B1B1 #FFFFFF Symbol: #000000
Genderless
State of not having a gender.
Gender modality
Four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, pastel orange, pastel green, grey-ish blue.
#000000 #EFE4B0 #C5FFA8 #C5D2E4
Cassgender
A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.
Gender modality Original flag post
Four equal-width horizontal stripes: white, very light green, leaf green, and charoal grey.
#FFFFFF #DAF9B5 #568269 #3B4331
Anvisenby
Someone who is apathetic toward their gender or gender as a whole, but still identifies as nonbinary or with neutrality. Alt names: Anvisenbin, Anvisneu
Gender modality Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Five horizontal stripes: pale cyan, pastel blue, white, pastel blue, pale cyan. Top and bottom stripes are bigger. Left side is covered by a pink semicircle and a white minus sign.
#CDF5FF #9AEDFF #FFFFFF Semicircle: #FF8BBF
Fem-repulsed
Repulsed by being called feminine terms and/or pronouns, whether or not your gender is feminine.
Gender-related Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Seven equal-width diagonal stripes: dark teal, teal, white-teal, green, white-gray, gray, black. The green stripe forms a circle at the centre.
#0D190E #90CA9E #C1E0C7 #50D67A #AECCB3 #69776B #020202
AGEAB
Assigned Agender/Genderless at Birth. This label is for people who feel that they have always been genderless, and reject being defined by or forced into AMAB/AFAB/AIAB labels.
AGAB-related Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Three equal-width vertical stripes: light green, black, bright green.
#B3F3D9 #000000 #00D37C
Angenital
Identity in which one desires to be without genitals, or does not have genitals (due to surgery). One may also lack or desire to lack any other sex characteristics. Not to be confused with agenital (a term for intersex individuals).
AGAB-related Coining post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: dark red, lighter dark red, light orange, red, bright red. The second stripe expands down in a triange of the same colour.
#5B0F01 #85200C #FACA99 #CC0001 #FE0000
Varioformic
Trangender-adjacent umbrella term for those who desire to transition partially or in an otherwise non-standard way.
Trans-related Dedicated Carrd
Three horizontal stripes: grey, white and yellow. The white stripe is smaller.
#737373 #FFFFFF #FEC60A
Archaeopronouns
Pronouns that were used in past iterations of a language and are no longer in standard use.
Pronouns
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light blue, white, light yellow, off orange.
#6BF3A1 #A0F8FF #FFFFFF #FFECA0 #F5BE6C
Neopronouns
Third-person pronouns besides he/him, she/her, and they/them that are not officially recognized in the language they are used in, typically created with the intent of being a gender-neutral pronoun set.
Pronouns
Seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, dark blue-green, green, light green, green, dark blue-green, black.
#000000 #092A2F #028207 #A8DCAB
Apoattractional
A person who does not relate to the concept of attraction and/or feels like it does not apply to them.
Orientation Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: white, brown, grey.
#EFEFEF #824E4D #999999
Orientationless
State of not having an orientation, either sexual, nor romantic, nor any other.
Orientation Coining post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: black, purple, grey, purple, black.
#000000 #542E8D #CAD3D8
Curasexual
Not feeling sexual attraction at all, and sexual connotation, eroticism, and sex in general, does not affect you emotionally, or psychologically, and is viewed in a more scientific, or even analytical way.
Orientation
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: green, dark blue, purple.
#7CAC7B #394B9C #652D92
Apathsexual
Apathromantic
My label of choice in the Apath/Askepsi/Cass trio. An apath individual feels indifferent, neutral, or apathetic to the idea of attraction or orientation. To me, it means that I don't care about my orientation. I could be of any orientation, but it doesn't matter, it's irrilevant, therefore I ignore it.
Orientation

Two flags with five equal-width horizontal stripes. The first four are in common: black, grey, pink, white. The last is purple in the first flag and green in the second flag.
#000000 #A3A3A3 #B64C62 #FFFFFF Purple: #7E007E Green: #3EA643
Askepsisexual
Askepsiromantic
Askepsi- is an annatractional spectrum label referring to people who very rarely think about actions relating to their orientation (sex/romance/cuddling/etc), and therefore do not feel attraction.
Orientation Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Askepsiromantic

Two flags with five equal-width horizontal stripes. The first four are in common: black, muted green, muted orange, muted pink. The last is muted purple in the first flag and green in the second flag.
#000000 #AABE8D #DDBDA8 #EA93A6 Purple: #D595DE Green: #9BC891
Cassexual
Cassromantic
Feeling utterly indifferent to your orientation, as though it does not matter or is not a significant part of your identity.
Orientation Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, orange.
#000000 #969696 #FFFFFF #FFD799
Asensual
Asensual is an orientation for those who does feels little to no sensual attraction, or does not desire sensual acts or relationships.
Orientation
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: light green, teal, purple, black, light grey
#D8E68F #2F95A9 #6D2276 #1F2630 #8FAFC9
Aphysical
Someone who does not experience physical attraction.
Orientation Flag post
Flag post (archive)
Original post
Original post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, blue, light green, blueish green.
#222331 #465469 #558DC4 #90C7A4 #69A4AB
Anemotional
Someone who does not experience emotional attraction.
Orientation Flag post
Flag post (archive)
Original post
Original post (archive)


Three similar flags with a grey vertical stripe on the right and a purple, green or orange smaller stripe on the left. There's a white minus sign on a grey background circled by the secondary colour.
Grey: #4B4B4B Purple: #800080 Green: #3DA542 Orange: #F1AB30
Sex-repulsed
Romance-repulsed
Touch-repulsed
Sex-repulsed, Romance-repulsed and Touch-repulsed are terms indicating a person who finds sexual, romantic and sensual (respectively) activity undesirable, uninteresting, uncomfortable, or generally unwanted.
Sex stance
Romance stance
Touch stance
Five horizontal stripes: blue, black, red, black, blue. The red stripe is larger and features an orange V-shaped symbol in the middle.
#002664 #000000 #C61C1C Orange: #FF9500
Anticarnal
A term under the ARCsexual umbrella which describes an individual who is sex-repulsed. An anticarnal individual is repulsed by the concept of sex in general, both at the idea of engaging in sex themselves, and at the idea of sexual activity that does not involve them.
Sex stance
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: red, pink, white, pink, red.
#CD0000 #FFC1CC #FFFFFF
Repulsusexual
Sex-repulsed or sex-averse people who are repulsed by the idea of someone being sexually attracted to them.
Sex stance
Three vertical stripes: brown, orange, blue. The blue stripe is larger with a red tear shape in the middle.
#7D4826 #E5762E #404DD9 Red: #FF1846
Asenbleed
An identity on the asensual spectrum defined as an individual who is asensual and touch-repulsed, but also sex and romance repulsed (or sex and romance averse) because of their touch repulsion.
Orientation
Sex stance
Romance stance
Touch stance
A pink chevron with purple on top and red on the bottom.
#532C5B #C199A2 #87232F
Non-libidoist
A person who does not have a sex drive (libido), hence does not experience sexual urges or desires regardless of orientation.
Aspec-related AVEN Wiki (archive)
Flag post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, light yellow, white, grey, darker grey.
#F9E760 #FFFBB2 #FFFFFF #C4C4C4 #A3A3A3
Agamous
Someone who does not engage in relationships or marriage. Agamy abandons the idea of partnership and the amatonormative relationship model.
Relationship stance
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: purple, pink, orange, with a turquoise letter V in the middle of the pink stripe.
#804AA7 #FF82D7 #FDC965 V: #8FF1E6
Non-amorous
A lifestyle choice or relationship style that does not include intimate, long-term partnerships, for an individual's definition of one. A nonamorous person generally does not want a relationship or partnership.
Relationship stance Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Flag post
Flag post (archive)
Five vertical stripes: black, grey, white, grey, black. The black stripes are larger.
#000000 #818181 #FFFFFF
Non-partnering
a person who does not wish to form a significant partnership with others.
Relationship stance Flag post
Flag post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: bright green, bright yellow, white, grey, black.
#8FFF8F #FFFF83 #FFFFFF #737373 #000000
Antiamorous
Someone who does not want to be in a relationship of any kind, either due to their lack of attraction or lack of desire for any type of relationship.
Relationship stance
Two equal-width horizontal stripes, blueish grey and dark grey, with a thin dark pink stripe in the middle. On the left there's a dark pink minus sign circled by the same colour on a dark grey background.
#A6BDBE #414349 Pink: #967A89
Relationship-averse
A person who finds the idea of personally engaging in relationships / relationship activity undesirable, uninteresting, uncomfortable, or generally unwanted.
Relationship stance Flag post
Flag post (archive)
Five equal-width horizontal stripes: bright green, bright pink, white, bright pink, bright green.
#95FF69 #FF69AF #FFFFFF
Transhazard
An identity based in unapologetic transness and opposition to cisnormative gender; a rejection of societal gender norms as a universal concept and an embracing of all those outcast by it. To be transhazard is to be recklessly, revolutionarily proud of oneself, one’s transness, and one’s community, and to uplift and support others regardless of conventionality.
Community Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Six equal-width horizontal stripes: purple, black, red, blue, black, purple. On top there's a black and white eye-shaped symbol with a spiral as the pupil.
#40025B #000000 #800536 #0759A7
Queerfuck
Queerfu*ck is a term for when your orientation and general identity is against social norms, heteronormativity, amatonormativity, etc. including the notion that orientations are boxes that you must perfectly fit into to be “valid” or “real.” One who’s queerfuck may have “contradictory” labels, and take pride in confusing and pissing off exclusionists.
Community Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Four equal-width horizontal stripes: pink, white, light grey, blue, with a black Awen symbol on top.
#F80D96 #FFFFFF #A19FA2 #1276E5
AWEN
Aspec / Mspec solidarity. Either (1) someone who's on both or (2) someone who's on one but wants to show solidarity to the other one. (my case is the second)
Community Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Four equal-width vertical stripes: purple, blue, yellow, green. There's a black vertical line and a white circle in the middle.
#2D173E #176264 #F2F260 #28662B Middle: #1A171C #E9E9E9
Lovepunk
Lovepunk can be both an identity and an opposition to the societal norms surrounding the concept of love. Lovepunk rejects the norms surrounding gender, attraction, orientation, and relationships, while actively resisting aphobia (arophobia, acephobia, aplphobia, etc) and the oppression caused by defying these norms.
Community Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: orange, yellow and blue. The flag is divided diagonally and covered by a black triangle. In the middle there is a black and white bird-like creature inside a circle outlined in white.
#DF873D #EABC4C #7798A1 #000000
Linguistic Anarchy
Linguistic Anarchy is a subset of descriptivism that emphasizes the bending or ignoring of linguistic rules to create more inclusive and accommodating language for queer people (especially neopronoun users) and preserving and recording language in an effort to oppose colonization.
Community
Outside the Queer
Coining post
Coining post (archive)
Mostly white flag with two thin pink lines in the middle. The lines are cut in half diagonally.
#FFFFFF #FF7C82
Childfree
State of not having and not wanting children.
Outside the Queer Original thread
Flag coining post
Image link
Three equal-width horizontal stripes: red, grey, purple.
#ED1B24 #C3C3C3 #843A85
Aprocreationist
Someone who doesn’t feel the need to procreate in any way at any time in their lives. Someone who has no desire to have children in any way at all.
Outside the Queer Coining post
Coining post (archive)