I like to hoard flags. Main terms in short: nonbinary, transgender, childfree, sex-repulsed, antiamorous, apath.
All the -sexual and -romantic terms also apply to any other tertiary attraction not mentioned.
Do not call me any feminine term. Do not give me any compliment.
Pronouns | Names | Honorifics | Descriptors | Terms to avoid |
In English: 💜 they them their theirs themself 💜 hīe hīe heom heora hīself ae aem aer aers aemself hel hel heli hels helself ze hir hir hirs hirself In Italian: 💜 lui / -o lui / -u ləi / -ə any other neutral ending except -* |
💜 Hiba 💜 Paru 💜 Juliën Luss Giuliə Juul Vanadio |
💜 Myt. (Myrtus) 💜 formal "lei" in Italian Mx. (Mixter) Mg. (Magus) (as a joke) Sir (as a joke) Mr. (as a joke) Comrade |
💜 Person 💜 Bro Dude (as a joke) Buddy (as a joke) Sis |
she/her and he/him Any diminutive of names Any compliment Any feminine term Honorifics: Ms., Ma'am, Madam Descriptors: enby, lady, boy, girl Others: cute, amo/ama, darling, bestie, oomf |
Flag | Flag description | Hex codes | Name | Explanation | Type | More info |
Six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple. |
#D60305 #FE7A13 #E9EE08 #00D78B #027FFE #6B0CD1 |
LGBT+ | Generic | Colourblind-friendly edit r/vexillology post |
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Two equal-width chevrons, one light purple and one dark purple, on a very pale, almost white, background. |
#FFF5EC #CF80CB #824B7A |
Queer | Generic | ||
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Five equal-width horizontal stripes: light blue, pink, white, pink, light blue. |
#5BCEFA #F5A9B8 #FFFFFF |
Transgender | Gender modality | ||
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Four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black. |
#FFF433 #FFFFFF #9B59D0 #2D2D2D |
Nonbinary | Genders that fall outside of the gender binary and aren't strictly, solely, or completely "man" or "woman". |
Gender modality | |
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Three equal-width horizontal stripes: purple, white, green. |
#B57EDC #FFFFFF #4A8123 |
Genderqueer | Umbrella term for non-normative experiences with gender. |
Gender modality | |
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Seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, lime green, white, grey, black. |
#000000 #BCC4C6 #FFFFFF #B6F583 |
Agender | Lack of gender identity. |
Gender modality | |
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Mosty white flag with thin black and grey stripes at the top and bottom, and a black genderless symbol (a circle with an X inside and a line under) in the middle. |
#3C3C3C #B1B1B1 #FFFFFF Symbol: #000000 |
Genderless | State of not having a gender. |
Gender modality | |
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Four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, pastel orange, pastel green, grey-ish blue. |
#000000 #EFE4B0 #C5FFA8 #C5D2E4 |
Cassgender | A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender. |
Gender modality | Original flag post |
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Four equal-width horizontal stripes: white, very light green, leaf green, and charoal grey. |
#FFFFFF #DAF9B5 #568269 #3B4331 |
Anvisenby | Someone who is apathetic toward their gender or gender as a whole, but still identifies as nonbinary or with neutrality. Alt names: Anvisenbin, Anvisneu |
Gender modality | Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Five horizontal stripes: pale cyan, pastel blue, white, pastel blue, pale cyan. Top and bottom stripes are bigger. Left side is covered by a pink semicircle and a white minus sign. |
#CDF5FF #9AEDFF #FFFFFF Semicircle: #FF8BBF |
Fem-repulsed | Repulsed by being called feminine terms and/or pronouns, whether or not your gender is feminine. |
Gender-related | Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Seven equal-width diagonal stripes: dark teal, teal, white-teal, green-blue, white-gray, gray, black. The middle green-blue stripe forms a circle at the centre. |
#0D190E #90CA9E #C1E0C7 #50D67A #AECCB3 #69776B #020202 |
AGEAB | Assigned Agender/Genderless at Birth. This label is for people who feel that they have always been genderless, and reject being defined by or forced into AMAB/AFAB/AIAB labels. |
AGAB-related | Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Three equal-width vertical stripes: light green, black, bright green. |
#B3F3D9 #000000 #00D37C |
Angenital | Identity in which one desires to be without genitals, or does not have genitals (due to surgery). One may also lack or desire to lack any other sex characteristics. Not to be confused with agenital (a term for intersex individuals). |
AGAB-related | Coining post (archive) |
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Five equal-width horizontal stripes: dark red, lighter dark red, light orange, red, bright red. The second stripe expands down in a triange of the same colour. |
#5B0F01 #85200C #FACA99 #CC0001 #FE0000 |
Varioformic | Trangender-adjacent umbrella term for those who desire to transition partially or in an otherwise non-standard way. |
Trans-related | Dedicated Carrd |
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Three horizontal stripes: grey, white and yellow. The white stripe is smaller. |
#737373 #FFFFFF #FEC60A |
Archaeopronouns | Pronouns that were used in past iterations of a language and are no longer in standard use. |
Pronouns | |
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Five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light blue, white, light yellow, off orange. |
#6BF3A1 #A0F8FF #FFFFFF #FFECA0 #F5BE6C |
Neopronouns | Third-person pronouns besides he/him, she/her, and they/them that are not officially recognized in the language they are used in, typically created with the intent of being a gender-neutral pronoun set. |
Pronouns | |
Seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, dark blue-green, green, light green, green, dark blue-green, black. |
#000000 #092A2F #028207 #A8DCAB |
Apoattractional | A person who does not relate to the concept of attraction and/or feels like it does not apply to them. |
Orientation | Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Three equal-width horizontal stripes: white, brown, grey. |
#EFEFEF #824E4D #999999 |
Orientationless | State of not having an orientation, either sexual, nor romantic, nor any other. |
Orientation | Coining post (archive) |
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Five equal-width horizontal stripes: black, purple, grey, purple, black. |
#000000 #542E8D #CAD3D8 |
Curasexual | Not feeling sexual attraction at all, and sexual connotation, eroticism, and sex in general, does not affect you emotionally, or psychologically, and is viewed in a more scientific, or even analytical way. |
Sexual orientation | |
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Three equal-width horizontal stripes: green, dark blue, purple. |
#7CAC7B #394B9C #652D92 |
Apathsexual Apathromantic |
My label of choice in the Apath/Askepsi/Cass trio. An apath individual feels indifferent, neutral, or apathetic to the idea of attraction or orientation. To me, it means that I don't care about my orientation. I could be of any orientation, but it doesn't matter, it's irrilevant, therefore I ignore it. |
Sexual orientation Romantic orientation |
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Two flags with five equal-width horizontal stripes. The first four are in common: black, grey, pink, white. The last is purple in the first flag and green in the second flag. |
#000000 #A3A3A3 #B64C62 #FFFFFF Purple: #7E007E Green: #3EA643 |
Askepsisexual Askepsiromantic |
Askepsi- is an annatractional spectrum label referring to people who very rarely think about actions relating to their orientation (sex/romance/cuddling/etc), and therefore do not feel attraction. |
Sexual orientation Romantic orientation |
Coining post Coining post (archive) Askepsiromantic |
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Two flags with five equal-width horizontal stripes. The first four are in common: black, muted green, muted orange, muted pink. The last is muted purple in the first flag and green in the second flag. |
#000000 #AABE8D #DDBDA8 #EA93A6 Purple: #D595DE Green: #9BC891 |
Cassexual Cassromantic |
Feeling utterly indifferent to your orientation, as though it does not matter or is not a significant part of your identity. |
Sexual orientation Romantic orientation |
Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Five equal-width horizontal stripes: bright green, bright pink, white, bright pink, bright green. |
#95FF69 #FF69AF #FFFFFF |
Transhazard | An identity based in unapologetic transness and opposition to cisnormative gender; a rejection of societal gender norms as a universal concept and an embracing of all those outcast by it. To be transhazard is to be recklessly, revolutionarily proud of oneself, one’s transness, and one’s community, and to uplift and support others regardless of conventionality. |
Community | Coining post Coining post (archive) |
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Mostly white flag with two thin pink lines in the middle. The lines are cut in half diagonally. |
#FFFFFF #FF7C82 |
Childfree | State of not having and not wanting children. |
Outside the Queer | Original thread Flag coining post Image link |
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Three equal-width horizontal stripes: red, grey, purple. |
#ED1B24 #C3C3C3 #843A85 |
Aprocreationist | Someone who doesn’t feel the need to procreate in any way at any time in their lives. Someone who has no desire to have children in any way at all. |
Outside the Queer | Coining post Coining post (archive) |